How Will Your Family Christmas Be Different This Year?

Little girl wrapped up in a scarf and hand smiling and enjoying the lights and festivities at Christmas time.

With large gatherings impossible, shopping restricted and Santa’s lap an illegal destination, what will Christmas look like this year?

Medical opinion, and recent government announcements make it likely we'll be living with restrictions for at least the next six months. Even if the current spike in cases can be blunted, the seasonal rise in flu will add to the testing burden. Older people may need to isolate again, as the risk increases. It doesn't mean that Christmas is cancelled, but we may have to use a bit of imagination and focus on the important stuff.

Assuming the rule-of-six and other current measures are still in place come December, here’s what we might expect.

Family Gatherings: Christmas is traditionally a time to get the whole family together. That seems unlikely this year. A family of four would be able to mix with just two other people -- one set of grandparents, for example. A family of five could only have one grandparent round. The only exceptions would be cases where a support bubble would allow for slightly larger gatherings. If cases are sufficiently low by December, the Government may look at ways to relax the ‘rule-of-six’ -- for example, excluding children from the count -- but that does seem optimistic right now.

Christmas Shopping: Shops will almost certainly retain tight controls on the number of shoppers allowed inside, with face masks still mandatory. Expect long queues outside the most popular shops. It might be wise to get the gifts in early this year. Online sales will no doubt benefit from the challenging high street conditions. With so many people relying on deliveries, it would again be wise to plan and order early.

Carol Singing: Rules on outdoor singing have been relaxed a little, but we’re not going to see tightly packed groups of carol singers this Christmas. Singing and shouting are much more likely to send aerosols (spittle) into the air than talking. Any performance will have to guard against that, with social distancing and perhaps face shields. The audience would also have to be socially distanced, and asked not to join in a singalong. So, it’s do-able, but the experience will be much less intimate.

Religious Observation: For Christians, of course, the festive period holds a deeper meaning. Church services were severely disrupted by the pandemic, but are once again possible. Assuming no drastic changes to policy, Christmas services will go ahead with similar precautions to regular services. 

School Plays: Right now, it seems unlikely that we’ll all be sat watching our kids dressed as shepherds and angels come December -- at least not in person. While limited indoor performances are now legal, holding a nativity or other play in a school is problematic. Perhaps we’ll see them broadcast live over Zoom or other remote viewing software instead.

Pantomimes: Again, indoor performances are now legal, but only to a small, distanced audience. That’s going to be a problem for pantomimes, which thrive on rowdiness and audience participation. We may see a handful of pantomime-lite performances (“The pandemic’s behind us… oh no it isn’t!”), but it’s not going to be a large part of Christmas.

Christmas lights angel hanging on Regents Street, London.

Christmas Lights: Many towns and cities mark the start of the Christmas period with a “switching on of the lights”. Oxford Street and Regent Street in London are particularly famous examples. We can expect plenty of illuminations as usual, but not a big hoo-ha about the switch on. Making an event out of it would draw in large crowds, which would be irresponsible. Many councils have already announced that this year’s switch-on ceremonies have been cancelled.

Light Trails: Large parks and outdoor venues like to create their own light trails over winter, as a way of attracting visitors during the colder months. Kew Gardens has already announced that its after-dark illuminations will return in November, as has Blenheim Palace. Such events are among the safer ways of marking Christmas -- outdoors, and well spaced-out. 

Christmas Markets: We’ve all now had plenty of practice at shopping with restrictions. There’s no obvious reason (as things stand) that outdoor Christmas markets can’t go ahead, so long as strict controls on numbers, hygiene and social distancing are put in place. Expect fewer stalls, though, as the reduced footfall will make large-scale markets uneconomical.

Santa’s Grotto: It’s possible to imagine a socially distanced and disinfected Santa’s Grotto…  but could it still be fun? Certainly, there’d be no sitting on Santa’s lap. And would his ho-ho-holiness have to wear a mask over that beard? If any venues do go ahead with a grotto, expect to see lots of elf and safety notices.

Winter Wonderland cancelled.

Winter Wonderland: The annual mega-fair in Hyde Park has been cancelled. This huge gathering of stalls, rides and ice sculptures proved too expensive to run without the vast crowds it usually draws. 

A Better Christmas? Even if all the above are cancelled or limited, many of the most cherished elements of Christmas will remain intact. Freed from its commercial trappings, the spirit of Christmas may burn brighter than ever this year. A celebration of love, peace and goodwill to all humankind never felt so important.



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